Move to the biggest city you can find. Get the smallest apartment you can find. Keep your underwear in a bowl in the fridge. Never answer your phone. Never remember your family's birthdays. Never make it home for Christmas. Think a lot about vampires, death, and sex with your friends' mothers...or fathers. You figure it out. I did.
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